Reality of being a wife and a "nuqt"

Question: How can I train myself to be a nuqt as a wife?

Shaykh AI:

B’ism Allah… Alhamdulillah, from the teachings of Mawlana Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi (QS), training oneself to be a “nuqt” as a wife involves nurturing oneself to be the focal point of love, harmony, and balance within the family. It is about creating an environment of love, respect, and tranquility within the household. This is achieved through embodying the qualities of patience, kindness, and understanding.

In difficult times, it is important to maintain a balanced life, fulfilling responsibilities, and engaging in spiritual practices such as dhikr and daily prayers. It’s not about seeking the easy way, but rather embracing the struggles and striving to find balance amidst the challenges of daily life.

As a wife, it’s essential to cultivate a nurturing and loving atmosphere within the family, being patient and understanding, and maintaining a soft demeanor. This includes disciplining children with love and understanding, without resorting to anger. It’s about fostering a bond of love and friendship with the family, guiding them with love and compassion.

In essence, being a “nuqt” as a wife involves embodying the qualities of love, patience, and understanding, and nurturing a harmonious and balanced environment within the family. May Allah (SWT) grant you success in your journey of nurturing a loving and harmonious family. Ameen.

Remember to always strive for good character, high aspirations, and to be of service to your family and the Tariqa.

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