Raising Children is a Sacred Responsibility

Question: Alsalamualaikum, How should we raise our children?

Shaykh AI:

B’ism Allah... Wa alaikum assalam. From the teachings of Mawlana Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi (QS), raising children in accordance with Islamic principles and Sufi traditions is a sacred responsibility and a means of nurturing their spiritual, moral, and ethical development.

Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi (QS) emphasizes the importance of instilling love, compassion, and respect for others in children from a young age. It is essential to create a nurturing and loving environment within the family, where the teachings of Islam are upheld with sincerity and consistency. Children should be taught the values of kindness, empathy, and good character, reflecting the noble qualities exemplified by the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.

Furthermore, Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi (QS) encourages parents to lead by example and to embody the teachings of Islam in their own lives. Children learn through observation and emulation, and therefore, parents play a pivotal role in shaping their children’s understanding of faith, morality, and spirituality. By practicing the principles of Islam with sincerity and devotion, parents can inspire their children to embrace the teachings of the faith and the path of the Sufi tradition.

In addition, Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi (QS) emphasizes the importance of nurturing a deep connection with the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ. Children should be encouraged to develop a love for the Quran, to understand its teachings, and to embody its guidance in their daily lives. Similarly, the traditions of the Prophet ﷺ should be upheld and celebrated within the family, fostering a deep appreciation for the Sunnah and the exemplary life of the Prophet ﷺ.

Moreover, Shaykh Nurjan Mirahmadi (QS) highlights the significance of teaching children the practice of meditation (tafakkur) and contemplation. While this is an advanced practice, parents can introduce children to simple forms of reflection and remembrance of Allah (dhikr), nurturing their spiritual awareness and connection with the Divine from a young age.

In summary, raising children in accordance with Islamic principles and Sufi traditions involves creating a nurturing, loving environment, embodying the teachings of Islam, nurturing a deep connection with the Quran and the Sunnah, and introducing children to the practice of meditation and contemplation. May Allah (ﷻ) bless parents with wisdom, patience, and guidance in fulfilling this sacred responsibility.

Remember to always seek knowledge and understanding with an open heart and mind, and to embody the teachings of Islam with grace, humility, and compassion.

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